As excited as the One Child Staff are at the prospect of not having to transfer therapy materials between several locations or set up tables and chairs for each session; we have moved into an empty shell of a space without any furniture of our own! One Child’s Summer Semester begins in 4 weeks and we are asking the community to help us again by providing furniture so that the space is welcoming and comfortable for our children and families.

There are 2 ways you can donate to the One Child Furniture Drive:

1. Donate used furniture such as book shelves and chairs

2. Help us raise $2500 to pay for specialized tables and chairs to accommodate our children that are not easily found in used condition – Donate Today!

Help us share the good news! Pass along the flyer to anyone you know, share it on social media…let’s get the word out! Thank you!!

One Child Center for Autism Furniture Drive

Art Therapy is most concisely defined as “a form of psychotherapy that uses art media as its primary mode of expression and communication” (British Association of Art Therapists). More simply, through the process of making art it is believed that the artist is able to explore and express emotions and  feelings that they may not be able to process or communicate effectively.  For this reason, Art Therapy  has been known to reduce stress & anxiety, help individuals to work through complex problems, and to increase self-esteem. Art Therapy is not about perfecting technique or improving art skills but or rather the process of making art – and where self-exploration, imagination and creativity meet.

As One Child launches our Art Therapy program we have decided to focus on 2 populations of our community that is underserved and could benefit from Art Therapy – non verbal children or those with limited verbal communication abilities, and siblings of special needs children.

Art Explorers: Art Therapy Group is for non verbal children or those with limited verbal communication ability. Our aim for this program is to help reduce stress and anxiety that is often associated with children that
are not able to effectively communicate.  Conducted in a group setting our hope is that participants will also establish a familiarity with their peers and form bonds with members in the group.

Creators Club: Art Group for Siblings is for the siblings of special needs children. We understand that while being a sibling of a special needs children is a wonderful experience,  their family life is very different from many of their peers. We want to provide them a safe and positive space where they can explore their feelings, express themselves openly without judgement, and a space to meet other peers like themselves and establish friendships born out of similar experiences.

I hope you will consider enrolling your child in these programs and help us spread the word about them so we can continue to serve families in our community!

Thank you,

Julie Cullifer

Your path is your own but it’s not the only one in the desert.
(Photo: K. Neumann)

As parents, when our children are diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, we are often given a long list of recommended therapy services and told to seek out these services in order to provide our children with “as much, as soon as possible.”  In that moment we find ourselves left in the desert landscape of a medical/therapy world that is very unfamiliar. We’re given a list of therapy services that we may or may not have ever heard of before such as Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) or Occupational Therapy, and maybe a few we are more familiar with like Speech or Physical Therapy. Then we are told to find these life sustaining needs but we have no real understanding of what they are, where they are, how to find them, and most importantly how to afford them.  In every direction, there is sand with no roads, water, food, or shade in sight.

There is not a known cure for Autism; it is a neurological disorder with life-long effects.  Children with Autism are neither broken nor burdens; they are a gift like every other child. My son laughs, plays, and feels deeply. He loves to play “chase” (his own version of tag), indoor basketball, and soccer with his siblings or climb into his parents laps. He also has strengths and weaknesses like everyone else in our family. As parents, it is important to remember the journey we encounter is not because our children are any less than other children. Rather, society’s inability to support them has created the desert landscape that we must traverse.

So, we slowly trudge through the process researching the various types of therapies, navigating the complicated world of insurance companies, and finding therapy providers. Only to discover the moment we think we have found that necessary therapy service –it’s a mere mirage. A mirage predicated on waiting lists and insurance companies that will not cover services for conditions not related to an accident in children over the age of 3.  However, through perseverance we forge a path in the sand, we educate ourselves, we fight insurance companies, we make financial sacrifices, and travel significant distances in order to provide these services to our children.

My Little Man at 15 months forging his own path.
(Photo: J. Cullifer)

This may not be every parent’s experience (almost certainly not for parents that in live in states with better Autism support services), but it was mine 3 ½ years ago when my son was diagnosed with Autism. In the years following his diagnosis, I’ve realized that my reality IS the reality for many parents in our community. One Child Center for Autism was founded in part for this reason. There is not a map for navigating the world of Autism Spectrum Disorder.  We are told that no child is alike and “Once you’ve met One Child with Autism, you’ve met One Child with Autism”- Stephen Shore.  Likewise, there is not one “right” way to journey through the world of Autism.  I believe strongly we can empower and help our children learn how to navigate a world that is very unfamiliar to them.

I began One Child out of a love for my son and a desire to help our community find a path out of the desert of inaccessible therapy,  financial distress, and uncertainty.  But helping the child is only part  of One  Child’s mission. I’ve come to realize that we  are each stronger –  and I am stronger –  when there are people in our lives that  acknowledge and support our family’s  journey. To that end, One Child  strives to create a space that not only provides support for our children with Autism but also a place that cares for the entire family unit – one that considers the well-being of  the parents and siblings. For  if we do not also support the caregivers and the future caregivers we  are doing a disservice to our families. My hope for One Child is that it  will serve as an oasis, a place where children and families affected by  Autism are given the tools and support to more easily conduct their  lives.

One Child is steered by a vision of hope and acceptance. We understand that there are many divisive issues surrounding Autism but we believe that the differences do not and should not alienate us from others affected by Autism. Our differences should not prevent us from working to create a central place where families affected by Autism can embrace their journey out of the desert, find respite, and create hope. In striving toward these aims I believe we will find that despite our many differences, our shared experiences unite us. Let’s celebrate our children and find space to support each other as we do the best for our families.

The desert is not our destination; it is merely the starting place from which we begin our journey.

Julie Cullifer
Co-Founder, One Child Center for Autism